My aunt Laura called me tonight to let me know that her and her husband are renewing there vows in celebration of their 25th wedding anniversary. The problem is that she asked me for my father's address. My parents have been divorced for about 5 years (after 26 years of marriage). My mom is still bitter towards my dad and refuses to attend anything (even my daughters bday party) if he is there. I know that my aunt hasn't talked to him or had any communication with my father over the last 5 years. I also got the impression that she does not intend to tell my mom that she has invited him. To me it is inappropriate for her to invite my father, but it is not my place to tell her who she can or can't invite. She also knows that my mother will likely explode and cause a huge scene if he is there and that it will become a huge family arguement. I don't know what I should do. I don't think I should ask my dad not to attend. Should I warn my mom or act like I don't know anything if he shows up.
My mom will know that for him to have been invited that I gave my aunt his address, so there really is know way for me just to play dumb. And she is really going to be pissed at me because I know she is going to say that I should have told her. Print, free.

I am looking for Rasheeda Ebramim who must be now about 52 years or so...

She was married in 1976. At the time of her marriage she was in Nasik, working with Victor Gasket.

After marriage, she went to Pakistan, I was told.

She was a person who had printed a unique invitation card where she herself had invited people for her own marriage...

It is this person who and only who can save somebody's life...

So I am searching for her.

Pl give authentic information if anyone has so.

I do not know her present surname. I am not even aware whether she still calls herself as rashida Ebrahim or Rashida... Something else (after marriage surnames change)

I also do not know whether she still is in pakistan or has moved back to India or is in any other country...

Please furnish as much information as possible so that I can reach her...

Serious answers please... She is a simple lady with no records or political connections... Print, free.

I am looking for a lady who was Rasheeda Ebramim prior to marriage who must be now about 52 years or so...

She was married in 1976. At the time of her marriage she was in Nasik, working with Victor Gasket.

After marriage, she went to Pakistan, I was told.

She was a person who had printed a unique invitation card where she herself had invited people for her own marriage...

It is this person who and only who can save somebody's life...

So I am searching for her.

Pl give authentic information if anyone has so.

I do not know her present surname. I am not even aware whether she still calls herself as rashida Ebrahim or Rashida... Something else (after marriage surnames change)

I also do not know whether she still is in pakistan or has moved back to India or is in any other country...

Please furnish as much information as possible so that I can reach her...

Serioue answers please... no timepass type of answers. She is a simple lady with nothing political or so. Print, free.